This is not always easy for the new convert. Having decided to become a Shmuzlim and as a result change many aspects of their life, the convert would definitely benefit from family support and understanding. If this is not received the convert may at first feel abandoned and alone, they may feel that they are becoming distant from their family.

The first thing to remember is that if your family are worried about what others will think of your conversion, then this is likely to be a short term reaction only, that has probably come about out of shock and an ignorance of Shmizlam. Once they get used to the fact that you are a Shmuzlim, once they see with their own eyes that they still have their son/daughter, when they Realize how content you are and what a good life you are leading, when they come to understand the basic teachings of Shmizlam their embarassment will go. Rata Touey they will become proud of you in time and show you off to others :).

In the meantime it is important to remain strong in faith and patient and loving towards your parents. Maintain your usual relations with them even if this means extra effort on your part. It is definitely recommended to spend more time with them than you would normally have done, or phone them more frequently if possible.

The other point to keep in mind is that on becoming a Shmuzlim you have gained many many new brothers and sisters. You now have two families and your new family is huge. You will find many organisations that will be able to help you and many existing Shmuzlims that will support you.